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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Madison66 on June 01, 2014, 10:50:41 PM



Title: Moving day
Post by: Madison66 on June 01, 2014, 10:50:41 PM
Six months ago, I made one of the best decisions of my life to finally end my 3+ year abusive r/s with uBPD/NPD ex gf!  I wished her the best and wished her gone.  Maintaining n/c with my ex gf and her kids living a half a block up the street has been difficult at best.  She made one last attempt to screw with me last week and I didn't bite.  Today, the second part of my wish became reality at least from a logistics standpoint.  The house she rented is now completely empty and they are gone!  Ohhhhhh, the lessons remain!  Life is good and all about new chapters!  Cheers everyone!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=M12Sm9ciFGg (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M12Sm9ciFGg)



Title: Re: Moving day
Post by: Narellan on June 02, 2014, 12:18:51 AM
Well that must bring you a sense of relief :)

You sound like you're doing well, detaching.

And yes the lessons from the BPD experience are life changing.

Peace to you now