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Title: Puppy Dog Eyes... Post by: Flora73 on September 04, 2014, 09:11:19 PM Hi All,
Is it common after a BPD rage that she she returns from her cooling off to accuse the nonBPD who is licking his wounds of having puppy dog eyes? I have a feeling BPD don't like to feel they have caused the nonBPD any suffering and therefore feel shame. Can any one let me know there thoughts. Many thanks Title: Re: Puppy Dog Eyes... Post by: formflier on September 05, 2014, 04:21:24 AM Hi All, Is it common after a BPD rage that she she returns from her cooling off to accuse the nonBPD who is licking his wounds of having puppy dog eyes? I have a feeling BPD don't like to feel they have caused the nonBPD any suffering and therefore feel shame. Can any one let me know there thoughts. Many thanks Entirely possible. And they may be accusing... .or they may be curious or concerned... .and it is perceived by you as accusing. The key for you... as the non... .to lower the temperature... even though you are still licking your wounds. This is tough... .this is a choice... .and sometimes you may not choose to do this. So... from what you have read in the lessons... how do you think you should respond to the puppy dog eyes accusation? |