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Title: Just saw my T this morning... Post by: SpringInMyStep on November 12, 2014, 11:33:27 AM She's great. She reminded me that this stuff wasn't my fault. I recently had a panic attack/trigger remembering an incident between me and my ex... .my T told me that next time this happens, sit down, take ten deep breaths and remember that it wasn't my fault.
It was an emotional session today but I feel better. I think that's part of the issue in a relationship with a BPD person - they have a way of twisting everything around to make us think we did something wrong. I found myself apologizing for things I had no control over - noises outside, people talking loudly, sirens, thunder... .sheesh it sounds ridiculous saying it now, but at the time all I wanted was to make her feel safe. |