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Title: Just saw a picture of my ex
Post by: Left broken and confused on December 20, 2014, 05:50:36 PM
I just saw a picture of my ex on fb. Not sure if it is a bad picture but he had a very odd look in his eyes sort of a dead look and he must have aged 10 years in the last few months.  He even looks like he may have lost hair or maybe its because it is in another style. What is happening to him? It is frightening to see


Title: Re: Just saw a picture of my ex
Post by: peiper on December 20, 2014, 06:38:04 PM
Did he breakup or did you?


Title: Re: Just saw a picture of my ex
Post by: Left broken and confused on December 20, 2014, 06:49:17 PM
He just stopped talking to me when I had problems with my ex husband.  I now know it wasn't that he didn't want to be there for me. He just couldn't so I think he ran because he thought I was going to. He has been with my replacement for about 5 months and this is his bday weekend so when he should be having a great time and she makes it seem like they are she posted a picture and I am just scared for him after seeing him in the photo. I can't save him but his father died in his 40s and that picture sent chills down my spine. He is just old and dead inside looking in the photo


Title: Re: Just saw a picture of my ex
Post by: peiper on December 20, 2014, 07:02:15 PM
Well I'd have to bet things aren't all wine and roses in his life. And he has remorse and some depression.


Title: Re: Just saw a picture of my ex
Post by: Left broken and confused on December 20, 2014, 07:10:25 PM
You could be right and although everything between them looks great on fb maybe it's not.  We still talk every week or 2 so I am not sure why he wouldn't tell me if he was depressed