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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: pudge on May 13, 2015, 03:20:49 PM



Title: recently divorced
Post by: pudge on May 13, 2015, 03:20:49 PM
Recently divorced trying to get through it and figure out how to talk to my kids


Title: Re: recently divorced
Post by: Turkish on May 13, 2015, 04:08:22 PM
Hi pudge,

I'm sorry about your divorce. It's stressful enough, but more so with kids involved. How old are your children, and how much do they know? What's the custody situation look like? I hope to hear more and how best we can support you.

Turkish


Title: Re: recently divorced
Post by: livednlearned on May 18, 2015, 12:49:23 PM
Hi pudge,

Recently divorced is a tough stage. How are you coping? It's not uncommon for people who go through a high-conflict divorce/custody battle -- especially after being in a BPD marriage -- to feel pretty beaten down. Although being somewhat separate from the conflict in the home on a daily basis can be a relief.

We're here for you. I hope you'll keep posting and let us know how you're doing.