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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Strategist79 on May 21, 2015, 10:32:17 PM



Title: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything
Post by: Strategist79 on May 21, 2015, 10:32:17 PM
Hello everyone!  I just found this site and I can't tell you how excited I am to find this resource. I was married to a BP for 5 years and we've been divorced for 9 and it just keeps getting worse. I still have the emotional abuse scars, but I'm finally getting help from counseling and have an amazing bride who can help confirm that I'm not crazy after all.


Title: Re: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything
Post by: JayApril on May 22, 2015, 01:20:43 AM
Welcome I hope you find the support you are looking for here. 

As for your ex-wife. What is she projecting on to you? Do you think possibly she may be upset you are getting remarried, and projecting her ill feelings on to you?


Title: Re: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything
Post by: livednlearned on May 22, 2015, 07:39:48 AM
Hi Strategist79,

Welcome to the site, glad you found it and congratulations on your upcoming wedding  :)

What ages are your kids? What kind of custody arrangement do you have?

Coparenting is not easy with a BPD ex spouse. Does she know that you're getting married? How is your fiancee managing?

LnL