Title: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything Post by: Strategist79 on May 21, 2015, 10:32:17 PM Hello everyone! I just found this site and I can't tell you how excited I am to find this resource. I was married to a BP for 5 years and we've been divorced for 9 and it just keeps getting worse. I still have the emotional abuse scars, but I'm finally getting help from counseling and have an amazing bride who can help confirm that I'm not crazy after all.
Title: Re: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything Post by: JayApril on May 22, 2015, 01:20:43 AM Welcome I hope you find the support you are looking for here.
As for your ex-wife. What is she projecting on to you? Do you think possibly she may be upset you are getting remarried, and projecting her ill feelings on to you? Title: Re: Don't know how to deal with ex-wife's projections about... almost everything Post by: livednlearned on May 22, 2015, 07:39:48 AM Hi Strategist79,
Welcome to the site, glad you found it and congratulations on your upcoming wedding :) What ages are your kids? What kind of custody arrangement do you have? Coparenting is not easy with a BPD ex spouse. Does she know that you're getting married? How is your fiancee managing? LnL |