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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: healingslowly12 on July 05, 2015, 11:28:09 AM



Title: Introduction
Post by: healingslowly12 on July 05, 2015, 11:28:09 AM
Hi everyone, I'm healing from a relationship with a BPD that broke up with me.  I'm so glad I found this site because I thought I was going crazy.  As you know, this isn't a normal break up and I'm glad I finally figured that out.  Its so hard, I want him out of my head so I can move on.  Luckily he isn't contacting me but I just want this pain to be over.  I'm glad to be here and I hope it helps me move on along with the rest of you


Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: lostjak on July 05, 2015, 11:48:03 AM
Hello!

I come here to read a lot. Every time I start to think it's me... .I come here. It helps to be around people that have been through the sane thing. I hate trying to talk about it people who have no idea.


Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: Yolanda123 on July 05, 2015, 11:50:48 AM
Hi healingslowly, just want to say welcome here, and I'm sorry you're going through this... .you'll find great support here, it helped me a lot in understanding the disorder, sharing my story and feelings and knowing that I'm not alone... .

Hang in there, things get better I promise  



Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: fromheeltoheal on July 05, 2015, 12:09:42 PM
Hey healing-

You found this place for a reason, probably because you're reading a lot of stuff that is very similar to your ex's behavior.  This site exists for a reason too, because BPD is really a thing, you're not going crazy even though it may feel like it right now, you're not alone, and there are a lot of answers here.

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Its so hard, I want him out of my head so I can move on.

That's a good goal, and good focus on the future.  How long was your relationship and how long has it been over?