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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Lifewriter16 on June 16, 2016, 05:33:37 PM



Title: Will his daughter be taken into care tomorrow?
Post by: Lifewriter16 on June 16, 2016, 05:33:37 PM
Hi Everyone.

My BPDxbf's wife is being taken to court by UK child protection services. The court case is tomorrow morning. My BPDxbf says the children will be taken into care because his wife has done nothing to cooperate with social services. My friend advises me that if the court grants an interim order, the children will be taken straight from school to foster homes. It'll be all set up already. There may even be a social worker sitting outside her house as I type to prevent her from absconding with the kids.

I feel sad for my BPDxbf, who loves his daughter very much but is incapable of providing her with a home. I worry that he could end up feeling suicidal again.

I also feel terribly sad for his little girl. She's only 6. I hope she has been prepared for what is going to happen. Imagine being carted off to a stranger's house when you don't understand what's happening. Regardless of how inadequate her mother/father are, she'll love them. I could weep buckets for her.

LW x