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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Sufficating on January 11, 2017, 02:10:28 PM



Title: BPD fakeness become clearer and clearer
Post by: Sufficating on January 11, 2017, 02:10:28 PM
I've noticed more and more the various personalities (moods?) of my BPD partner.  He seems so fake to me all the time, completely insincere.  I can't believe I bought into his crap for the past 3 years. 

My 8 year old daughter whispered to me the other night "he seems like a cartoon".  That really blew me away. 

Anyone else shocked when the mask comes off?


Title: Re: BPD fakeness become clearer and clearer
Post by: ynwa on January 13, 2017, 12:39:51 AM
I'm getting there.  It doesn't feel right when she puts on the tears, and her attempts at anger don't work because I don't engage.  It still hurts, because I'm losing her, day by day.  And I never thought, I'd live my life separate from her.