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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: rarsweet on January 19, 2017, 06:36:08 PM



Title: Stealing
Post by: rarsweet on January 19, 2017, 06:36:08 PM
Have any of your pwBPD been thieves? I had a customer at work, who I didn't know knew my ex, ask me to give my ex a message." Tell that effin thief to give me back my house key." Appatently someone who let my ex couch surf at his place. I didn't ask questions, but ex does steal from anyone he can, any chance he can, including cons like insurance fraud and suing an employer.


Title: Re: Stealing
Post by: Deb on January 22, 2017, 06:27:15 PM
rarsweet, my dBPD sister will steal ffrom family in a hot minute. Maybe friends too. She won't shop;ifr as she has a fear of going to jail. I think it's the entitlement mentality. She wants it so it should be hers.


Title: Re: Stealing
Post by: michel71 on January 22, 2017, 11:18:57 PM
Yeah. I was going to echo that I think it is the entitlement piece.

I recently found out from my uBPDw's family that she owes everybody money. That was a shocker as my wife always swore she was an expert money manager and never depended on anybody.

But again they also re-write history/events so maybe the "stealing" didn't really happen.