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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: tomlin on February 05, 2017, 06:56:48 AM



Title: my BPD wife is verbally abusive and prefers sex with other men.
Post by: tomlin on February 05, 2017, 06:56:48 AM
we are raising a 13 year old grandaughter and I am reluctant to leave.


Title: Re: my BPD wife is verbally abusive and prefers sex with other men.
Post by: Naughty Nibbler on February 05, 2017, 04:42:33 PM

Welcome Tomlin:   
Sorry about your problems with your wife.  Do you and your wife both have custody of your granddaughter?  What is the situation with her parents?  Is your wife abusive to your granddaughter, as well as you?

Has your wife ever gotten treatment for her BPD?  Is she currently in treatment?

How long has your wife been cheating on you with other men?  Is she having emotional relationships with them, or just sex?




Title: Re: my BPD wife is verbally abusive and prefers sex with other men.
Post by: livednlearned on February 07, 2017, 10:16:32 AM
Hi Tomlin,

I understand the reluctance. It's tough when there is a child involved.

Lots of us have walked in your shoes and know what it's like. You're not alone.

I hope you'll post more and let us know how you're doing.

LnL