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Title: I need support Post by: Bobbie Ann on February 10, 2017, 08:01:08 PM My doctor told me about BPD today. We discussed the stressful marriage I'm in and how it can result in health issues. I'm beginning to think my husband has BPD. He is so verbally abusive and withholds money from me. I feel so unloved and alone. I like my for a loving hug or touch. My husband never touches me unless he wants sex ugh
Title: Re: I need support Post by: Mutt on February 10, 2017, 08:42:10 PM Hi Bobbie Ann,
*welcome* I'd like to welcome you bpdfamily. I understand how invalidating and depressing it feels when our pwBPD push us away. I use to get the silent treatment and my ex would project that I was giving her the silent treatment What are your boundaries when he's verbally abusive? I'll ask t same question but this money, what are your boundaries? Do you have kids? Title: Re: I need support Post by: Chalk1 on February 10, 2017, 08:57:38 PM How long have you been married? How long has your husband exhibited BPD traits?
Title: Re: I need support Post by: Lucky Jim on February 13, 2017, 12:23:04 PM Hey Bobbie Ann, Welcome! In addition to verbal abuse and withholding money, what makes you think your H has BPD? I will echo those above and ask, how long have you been married and do you have children? Is it a second marriage for either of you? We know what it's like in a r/s with a pwBPD, so you are not alone.
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