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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Aesir on February 24, 2017, 05:20:25 PM



Title: Dreams
Post by: Aesir on February 24, 2017, 05:20:25 PM
I dreamt of my ex recently and it was strange. In the dream I was asking her if she was seeing anyone. Then I asked if I could come back. I remember feeling shocked at the second question. It was like I was watching a film. When I woke up later I was confused at first and then angry. I thought "HELL NO" I don't want to go back. Perhaps there is a disconnect between how I feel about the situation and what I know about the situation somewhere.


Title: Re: Dreams
Post by: Ragnar1982 on February 24, 2017, 05:25:18 PM
I like to pay attention to how I feel when I wake up from a dream. It seems like your initial reaction of confusion and anger is important to realize. That's the part I would focus on as opposed to what the dream means.


Title: Re: Dreams
Post by: Aesir on February 24, 2017, 08:39:23 PM
I like to pay attention to how I feel when I wake up from a dream. It seems like your initial reaction of confusion and anger is important to realize. That's the part I would focus on as opposed to what the dream means.

I agree.