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Title: I miss my ex. Post by: ShadowA on April 27, 2017, 02:12:53 PM That's all I want to say...
I really shouldn't. Can't help it though. Title: Re: I miss my ex. Post by: once removed on April 27, 2017, 02:28:05 PM hey ShadowA
i felt very similarly. i thought that if a loved one treated me harshly, then having any conflicted feelings, any feelings at all really, meant there was something wrong with me. things got a lot smoother for me when i gave myself permission to grieve, and to miss my ex. it is natural to miss a loved one, even one that has treated you harshly, and i suspect it will go a long way toward managing your conflicted feelings if you feel them and observe them without judgment. you suffered a loss, and that would hurt anyone. it helps to talk. what are you missing about her? Title: Re: I miss my ex. Post by: Mutt on April 27, 2017, 05:16:19 PM Hi ShadowA,
5 years is a significant amount of time for a r/s, it's normal. Was there something in particular that brought these feelings on? Title: Re: I miss my ex. Post by: butterflylove on April 27, 2017, 10:14:26 PM Me too
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