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Title: Any recommendations for residential treatment facilities?
Post by: Paris56 on April 29, 2017, 08:13:12 PM
Hello, I'm new here. I have a 28 yr old daughter with diagnoses of BPD traits, bipolar disorder and substance abuse. She tried in-patient, out patient and partial hospitalization last year before finally going to a residential treatment facility in Arizona. She was there for a month, but they really focused her therapy on the substance abuse with very little attention to the mood disorders.
She is married with a 1 yr old and a 3 yr old. Her husband is supportive but has started a new business and works some long, odd hours. Long story short; she's a mess again and is considering residential treatment. Insurance will likely be an issue since it is private insurance. But having said that no one wants to send her somewhere that won't focus on the mood issues. Does anyone out there have good experience with any of these places?  Thanks for listening.


Title: Re: Any recommendations for residential treatment facilities?
Post by: livednlearned on April 30, 2017, 05:08:26 PM
Hi Paris,

Welcome to bpdfamily :)

It takes a lot of courage for your D28 to reach out for help and seek support. I hope she finds the right combination of services with your help.

I'm not familiar with RTC in Arizona, tho there are some member-created resources that might be useful:
 
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What does hospitalization accomplish?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=167125.0
 
Any anyone tried or looked into residential therapy?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=112487.0
 
Is an RTC right for our well-behaved Borderline 17 yr old daughter?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=156853.0
 
When to consider RTC?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=96323.0
 
Residential treatment?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=125499.0
 
When do you know to get day treatment or IOP for your d/s?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=173381.0
 
Long term residential treatment
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=188872
 
Medicaid and Residential Treatment
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=181325.0
 
Insurance Coverage and RTC
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=203810.0
 
SS Disability
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=178545.0;all
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=199881
 
Who can afford it?
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=163692
 
How to pick a RTC
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=196049.0
 
How to Find a Residential Facility
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=210503.
 
Suggestions on residential facilities for 16 yr old daughter
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=204766.0
 
RTCs
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=114130.0
 
How to transition home from RTC
 
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=200919.0
 
Coping Skills for Parents when their child is inpatient
 
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nP9mhmALVbY&feature=youtu.be


Title: Re: Any recommendations for residential treatment facilities?
Post by: Mutt on April 30, 2017, 05:31:36 PM
Hi Paris56,  

*welcome*

But having said that no one wants to send her somewhere that won't focus on the mood issues.

Dr Robert O. Friedel, had a sister, her name was Denise and while she was growing up through adulthood, she was never treated for BPD, they didn't know how to treat it back then. Dr Robert O. Friedel developed effective treatment for BPD, in his book BPD Demystified he says that they want to treat the depression first because it can lessen the BPD symptoms, it's easier to treat the disorder if depression is under control.

Borderline Personality Disorder Demystified (https://bpdfamily.com/book-reviews/borderline-personality-disorder-demystified)