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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: kentbuckman on May 19, 2017, 08:51:31 PM



Title: my girlfriend
Post by: kentbuckman on May 19, 2017, 08:51:31 PM
hello, I just read the description of BPD, and all the mystery was removed about the "touchyness" and angry mood swings out of the blue.  not really a relief, since we are 50 and older people are very entrenched in our behavior.


Title: Re: my girlfriend
Post by: kentbuckman on May 19, 2017, 10:59:58 PM
I dont know what I should do... .I dont think I want to spend any more years of my life in trauma/drama.  I got sober so I could end all that to a large degree.  I feel like I AM abondoning her, but I have been 7 months trying to be peacefully happy with her... .but its a constant cycle of good behavior when she is pleased, and anger when she not pleased.  I feel like im walking a mine field in paradise.  She is beautiful, but mean as a snake.