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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Ferguson22 on May 22, 2017, 12:04:00 AM



Title: What to do
Post by: Ferguson22 on May 22, 2017, 12:04:00 AM
I met my now ex girlfriend while working in another state. I took a new job in another state and eventually she agreed to move here. After 6 months of living together we got in a big fight and she moved out. I really do love her, and I want her back, but she says she doesn't know if she can trust me. What do I do?


Title: Re: What to do
Post by: Ferguson22 on May 22, 2017, 06:25:46 AM
She had been gone for almost 2 months now. We have some sort of contact every day. I have always stood my ground in every argument and this one was a major argument over nothing. When she asked if we were gonna talk, I had had enough and just said no.


Title: Re: What to do
Post by: Ferguson22 on May 22, 2017, 11:03:44 AM
We have had some awesome times together and we have been through a lot together. She moved here to be with me. When she first got her she had a mental snap and spent 10 days in the hospital. I don't think that she is in the right mental state. After reading about BPD, that is without a doubt what it is. I am not staying in this state for much longer and I would feel very guilty if I "left her here"


Title: Re: What to do
Post by: Ferguson22 on May 22, 2017, 11:04:47 AM
And we've been together for about 3 and a half years.