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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: juju2 on April 22, 2018, 02:23:30 PM



Title: More unusual dreams
Post by: juju2 on April 22, 2018, 02:23:30 PM
Hi family,

Last nite, I dreamed about finding two Afghan puppies, then, two smaller dogs, so four puppies.

I went to his house, and brought the puppies w me. 

He lived in  2nd story apt.this time.
One of the puppies, the smaller white one, fell off the balcony, went to get him, his ankle was broken.

There were people at his apt I didn't know.

There was a 12 yr. Old girl, and that was his g/f.

He thought she was 18.

And I thought, I should call the police.

Basically, I didn't care, saw that it wasn't my battle.
Just remember thinking, he is a lost cause.

So that dream was so unusual, I got 4 puppies, what is w that.

He called me last nite, and then I had the dream.

I lnow he is reaching out to me more, that is great.

And because of you all, I am able to be much stronger.  I have self respect, confidence, self care.

You all made the difference.

j







Title: More unusual dreams
Post by: lighthouse9 on April 22, 2018, 03:53:57 PM
Juju,

I've had some major weird dreams, too, and I always wake up feeling like I spent the night at a carnival or something. My dreams have always been extremely symbolic, sometimes obviously symbolic.

Lately, they've revolved around her letting me down in some weird way and hiding a relationship with someone else. I even had a dream of me being with someone like her ex BF right before they started talking again and it creeped me out big time.

I don't tend to put a ton of stock into my dreams, except to say hey, my brain must be working something out that I'm not fully processing in the daylight. How do you feel about your dreams?


Title: More unusual dreams
Post by: juju2 on April 22, 2018, 07:10:04 PM
Yes, I agree, my brain is working on my behalf.  The thing I consciously thought, was that he is off the deep end.  And that i have no control.

My dreams support that theme... .

So much so, I have always wanted to have an Afghan puppy.  In my dream, I got two!

The learning and awareness here is off the charts!

Thank you,  j



Title: More unusual dreams
Post by: CryWolf on April 22, 2018, 10:48:53 PM
Hey I have weird dreams too!

The ones where I miss her and chase her, she’s always with someone new. She looks at me in disgust.

The ones where I don’t do anything. She pops up in my dreams in random places like a forest full of snow and cherry blossom trees. We look at each other don’t say anything and hold each other and cry.

Last night, I had a dream there was a  huge storm coming to our area. Me and my ex were together and gathering supplies for  the storm in my dream...
We finally got sunny skies and beautiful weather here in the south! But then this morning I woke up, and I called my mom to see if she wanted to hang out. And she said “no it’s raining like crazy today”... .I was shocked. I didn’t check the weather app or was aware of the weather change before I had the dream. It’s  been crazy winds and rain all day.