Title: It never ends as long as you have contact Post by: MeandThee29 on August 01, 2018, 10:29:36 PM FWIW, it never ends as long as you have contact. Mine are in college and live with me, and we still have flares.
First it was something I told about one of them to relative of his that he didn't know about, and then it was giving in to his probing on a decision one of them that he wasn't consulted about. Both backfired. I've decided that our offspring deserve their privacy, so now I just give general information if any. They are completely estranged from him. He also accuses me of being enmeshed with them because I used to participate in carpools, went to all of their events, took them to the gym, etc. etc. Nope, just good parenting. |