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Miscellaneous => Help Desk => Topic started by: BPDFamily on October 06, 2018, 09:03:53 PM



Title: COMMUNITY DIRECTORY
Post by: BPDFamily on October 06, 2018, 09:03:53 PM
BOARD DIRECTORY

This is a support community for the family and relationship partners of individuals with borderline personality disorder traits (BPD). Our collective mission is improving member lifestyle and emotional well being through compassionate support and education.
KEY
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Frequently asked questions, how-to instructions, trouble shooting and questions about the community.
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This Board is for romantic partners who are in a relationship or who have just broken up and are seeking to rekindle a relationship.
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This board supports those who are tired of fixing and who are questioning their relationship future.
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This board is for members who are grieving the loss of a relationship and are trying to emotionally detach from their ex-partner. This is also board for members who are at a more advanced level, doing a relationship postmortem, and are ready to evaluate their own emotional health and behavior -  this requires a self-awareness deep dive.  
Click Here to See Board Charter - Detaching (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=332589.0)  |  Click Here to See Board Charter - Learning (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=56295.msg518481#msg518481)  |  Click Here to Go to Board (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=11.0)

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This board is for members grappling with custody issues and discusses family court, co-parenting/parallel parenting, and parental alienation strategies.
Downloadable pamphlet: About Personality Disorders and the Family courts (https://bpdfamily.com/pdfs/pamp-eddy.pdf)
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This board is for adult children of a Borderline parent, or family members of someone with BPD.
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This board provides support for parents of children who suffer from BPD.  It follows the basic principles of the Family Connections program developed by the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder (NEABPD).  
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This is a skills library containing tools for relationship building, coping and self-discovery. This board is not for questions related to a specific person in your life.  
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This board is for general questions about BPD and other personality disorders, trait definitions, related diagnostics, management and care. Topics should be formatted as a question. This board is not for questions related to a specific person in your life.  
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This board contains articles and member reviews of articles for the family and relationship partners of individuals with BPD.  This board is not for questions related to a specific person in your life.  
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Title: Re: DIRECTORY
Post by: BPDFamily on October 06, 2018, 10:58:43 PM
WORKSHOP MENU
 |---> RELATIONSHIP SKILLS
1.01 | The Do's and Don'ts in a BPD Relationship  (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=62266)
1.03 | Being an Emotional Caregiver (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=173897)
1.05 | Telling Someone You Think They Have BPD (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=76633)
1.06 | Radical Acceptance For Family Members (DBT skill) (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=89910)
1.07 | Boundaries and Values (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=61684)
1.08 | Boundaries - examples (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=167368)
1.09 | Being Assertive (DBT skill) (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=206736)
1.11 | Validation Skill - Stop Invalidating Others (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=81442)
1.12 | Validation - examples (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=124001)
1.14 | How To Be More Empathetic To The pwBPD In Our Life? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=210574)
1.15 | Communicate - Listen and Be Heard (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=69272)
1.16 | Communicate - S.E.T. (Support, Empathy and Truth) (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=143695)
1.17 | Communicate - D.E.A.R.M.A.N. Technique (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=160566)
1.18 | Communicate: Reinforcing Good Behavior and Positive Reinforcement  (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=103822)
1.19 | Reinforcing the Positive (with narcissists) (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=120342)
1.21 | Triggering, Mindfulness, and the WiseMind (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=64749)
1.22 | Are You Supporting or Enabling? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=95263)
1.23 | Dealing with Enmeshment and Codependence (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=111772)
1.24 | The Dysfunctional Dance - Self Inflicted Wounds (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=66672)
1.25 | How to deal with an angry partner (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=66672)
 |---> MANAGING CONFLICT
2.01 | Karpman Drama Triangle (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=108440)
2.02 | Don't "JADE"(justify, argue, defend, explain)  (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=139972)
2.03 | B.I.F.F. Technique for Communications (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=134124)
2.05 | Stop Accusations and Blaming (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=87204)
2.06 | Arguing - Don't Engage (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=106107)
2.07 | Control and Controlling Behaviors - Why We Engage (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=92025)
2.09 | Stopping Circular Arguments (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=118892)
2.10 | Handling Inappropriate Phone Calls (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=137370)
2.11 | Responding to Hostile Email After the Divorce (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=133835)
2.12 | Is Food a Source of Trouble in Your Home? [romantic partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=147329)
2.13 | Do We Use Projection Toward Our BPD Partner? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=54246)
 |---> CRISIS MANAGEMENT
3.01 | How to escape, take a time out (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=84942)
3.02 | Is it better for the kids if I stay or leave? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=61666)
3.03 | Domestic violence [women] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=61403)
3.04 | Domestic violence [for men] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=87480)
3.05 | What to do if your child is arrested (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=211658)
3.06 | Suicide ideation in others (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=79032)
 |---> HAVING A PARENT WITH BPD TRAITS
4.01 | Acceptance, when our parent has BPD (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=111415)
4.02 | Grieving Our Losses (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=292033)
4.02 | Remembering the Abuse - when is it therapeutic? When is it debilitating? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=189733)
4.03 | Emotional or covert incest: discussing it and healing from it (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=274516)
4.10 | Positive Entitlement - Taking The Initiative To Share In Life's Riches (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=111984)
4.12 | Identifying and working on self-sabotage (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=137507)
4.13 | Dealing with trauma: PTSD, C-PTSD and emotional flashbacks (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=277040)
4.15 | Toxic Shame - What Is It and What Can We Do About It? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=117309)
4.20 | Family systems--understanding the narcissistic family (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=108970)
4.21 | BPD in-laws: Experiences and coping strategies (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=285794)
 |---> SELF AWARENESS
5.01 | Are we victims? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=114232)
5.02 | Believing in yourself (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=78298)
5.03 | Self respect and our sense of ourselves (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=121173)
5.05 | Relationship recycling [romantic partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=95860)
5.06 | Being "friends" after a break-up (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=67671)
5.07 | Dealing with ruminations (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=103396)
5.08 | Anger and Healing (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=75098)
5.09 | "FOG" - fear, obligation, guilt (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=82926)
5.10 | Ragephobia, the fear of being raged upon (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=119083)
5.11 | What is a panic attack? How to deal with them. (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=71498)
5.12 | What is PTSD and how do you define "trigger"? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=124200)
5.13 | The Role of Sex in Dysfunctional Relationships  (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=299970)
 |---> WORKING ON OURSELVES
6.01 | What does it mean to take care of yourself? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=112473)
6.05 | How a dysfunctional childhood affects our development (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=67281)
6.07 | Is resentment blocking your healing and recovery? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=135831)
6.09 | Has the anger gone too far? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=185367)
 6.11 | Depression and Suicidal Ideation (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=69192)
6.12 | Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=149500)
6.13 | How Can We Forgive Ourselves? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=113483)
 |---> GAINING PERSPECTIVE
7.01 | Do you suffer from Compassion Fatigue? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=140226)
7.02 | Forgiveness (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=58084)
7.03 | The Difference Between A "Honeymoon Phase" and "Idealization"? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=285168)
 |---> AFTER THE BREAKUP
8.01 | The Biology of Breaking Up - why it hurts [romantic partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=141948)
8.02 | Is there a healthful way to get past the pain of a broken heart? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=136432)
8.03 | Helping our children deal with trauma (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=120428)
8.03 | When the children of a BPD parent are at risk (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=97979)
8.05 | Acceptance - the final stage of grieving (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=72841)
8.06 | From idealization to devaluation - why we struggle (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=161524)
8.07 | Ease your pain by reframing your thoughts (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=137440)
8.08 | Dont let them control your life!  [romantic partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=135876)
8.12 | Painting your ex black - healthy or unhealthy? [for relationship partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=149594)
8.20 | Addictive Relationships (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=72858)
8.21 | Contact after the breakup [romantic partners] (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=120426)
8.22 | Why we are attracted to a pwBPD (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=67042)
8.23 | Case histories - why we stayed in a long term relationship? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=72926)
8.24 | Why we don't see it coming and why we stay (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=70860)
8.30 | When are we ready to start a new relationship? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=69783)
8.40 | Shared Parenting (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=67574)
8.41 | Things to cover in a parenting plan (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=90775)
8.42 | Custody and psych. evaluations--  Experiences and preparation (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=74287)
8.43 | Early signs of possible BPD traits in your children (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=270988)
8.44 | Child Development and Parents with Mental Illness (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=167128)
8.60 | The complex issue of alienated children (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=104479)
8.63 | Meditation for children under stress (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=119814)
 |---> MISCELLANEOUS
9.01 | Is This Forum Objective? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=125831)
9.02 | Coaching Others - Do You Find It Frustrating Sometimes? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=71263)
9.03 | Should We Tell The Other Man/Woman Of The Affair? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=98561)
9.04 | Supporting a Child in Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=198345)

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