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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Borderlined on June 28, 2019, 08:05:52 PM



Title: A new level
Post by: Borderlined on June 28, 2019, 08:05:52 PM
Im defeated
I've wasted years.Most of my life I continually find a new level of hopelessness. That's it. That's all I've wanted to say 


Title: Re: A new level
Post by: Gemsforeyes on June 28, 2019, 08:23:01 PM
Hey Borderlined-

I know... sometimes we do get that feeling of hopelessness and Years of wasted time.  I feel that way on many days.

But I’m willing to bet that every single person who knows you could list at least 10 amazing qualities that you have.

Please tell me more about what you’re thinking right now.  I do believe we can always change something.  Sometimes the tiniest change can make a difference in how we see things.

Warmly,
Gemsforeyes


Title: Re: A new level
Post by: formflier on June 29, 2019, 04:33:10 AM

Please tell me more about what you’re thinking right now.  

I also would like to know more. 

Best,

FF


Title: Re: A new level
Post by: Borderlined on June 30, 2019, 12:34:43 PM
I have many good qualities I like to think. I'm defeated by the endless turmoil that seems to follow her around. It effects my life and I'm getting no help.Not with family or professionals. At times they work against me getting her in front of the right Drs.  She is a good person with a bad illness. I suppose with no license now it is the main thing that all other anxieties are based on. It's a prison. For both of us