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Title: why do i keep ending up with bdp people in my life Post by: lisav on July 03, 2019, 01:10:00 AM firts it was my sister, then it was my husband and now my art dealer...lies manipulation gas lighting making me feel
like i cam never do enough be right recieve reapect Title: Re: why do i keep ending up with bdp people in my life Post by: Kwamina on July 05, 2019, 10:21:42 AM Hi lisav :hi:
I am sorry you seem to have encountered multiple disordered people in your life. What exactly is your art dealer doing to you? You mention your sister and husband. How is your relationship with them currently? Take care and I hope to read more of your story later The Board Parrot Title: Re: why do i keep ending up with bdp people in my life Post by: Tsultan on July 05, 2019, 02:28:52 PM Hello there! :hi:
I am finding that for me b/c it runs in the family it's familiar and feels comfortable. Which means for me, I just need to be aware of this attraction that I have and visa versa and do things differently. Kind of like going against the grain. The good news is I am forming healthier r/s with people in recovery. Keep on reading about the disorder. Learning about the disorder is the beginning of awareness and with that new information you can make more informed decisions. We don't know what we don't know. Keep posting and talking about here. This is a safe place to do that. Ts |