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Title: Explosion question
Post by: Beachlove on November 05, 2019, 09:09:15 PM
Adult D 25
This is the type of explosion my DH and I deal with and have for the past 16 years

She always leaves her laundry in washer and dryer and so we didn’t check the clothing before putting in the dryer and she blew up started cussing and yelling and having a temper temper and just down right mad rude etc.

I looked at the item and told her it was buttoned in the back and it didn’t shrink., she jerked it out of my hands and said  don’t wash it again., it won’t dry in 11 hours and she continued to cuss and yell for 15 min.

Does she really not realize how rude and disrespectful and what a brat she sounds like?

Is there any reason to get so upset?

Does she really not have a conscience as to hw rude she is ?

I have so many questions., because this is what happens all the time 


Title: Re: Explosion question
Post by: FaithHopeLove on November 06, 2019, 01:58:54 AM
That is rude. I don't know if she realizes it or not. In the moment probably not. After the storm passes maybe. Either way you can't live like this. You can't control her behavior but you can choose your own personal boundaries and decide what you will do when she violates them. For example if she starts yelling and cussing you can leave the room. What do you thin