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Title: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: smomruby on February 06, 2020, 09:42:27 AM
Thoughts on sending your child to a therapeutic boarding school...?

The costs are usually astronomical but if you could afford it would you send them?
Do you think they are a good choice? There's so much negative press surrounding them.

Does anyone have good intel about any schools in the northeast (US)?


Title: Re: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: Swimmy55 on February 08, 2020, 08:31:33 AM
Hello and welcome,
 In my situation my son was in a therapeutic hospital back in 09-10 at RICA in Baltimore.  He then got transferred to Board of Childcare in Baltimore group home .   
I would say the positives were that my son was so dysregulated that the regimented environment helped him.   In RICA, they had a school within that bored my son.  At the group home he was allowed to go to a public magnet school via bus. 
I am thankful because my son learned grooming, how to do laundry, and his day was regimented and supervised.  I credit this time period
to  helping my son graduate high school and then graduating college even though he signed himself out at 18. 



Title: Re: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: Isanni on March 24, 2020, 01:47:22 PM
If you have the funds, perhaps start with an educational consultant. We have been happy so far - wilderness and now transitioning to a boarding school. We're happy because they were able to give a clear picture of my kid and picked a suitable school - she doesn't have addictions and isn't criminal but is emotional immature and too easily influenced and desperately needs healthy kids around her and so a school was picked based on that profile.


Title: Re: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: livednlearned on April 01, 2020, 06:59:37 AM
There are some threads on this same question that might be helpful:

Excerpt
Any anyone tried or looked into residential therapy?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=112487.0
 
Is an RTC right for our well-behaved Borderline 17 yr old daughter?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=156853.0
 
When to consider RTC?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=96323.0
 
Residential treatment?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=125499.0
 
When do you know to get day treatment or IOP for your d/s?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=173381.0
 
Long term residential treatment
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=188872
 
Medicaid and Residential Treatment
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=181325.0
 
Insurance Coverage and RTC
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=203810.0
 
SS Disability
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=178545.0;all
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=199881
 
Who can afford it?
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=163692
 
How to pick a RTC
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=196049.0
 
How to Find a Residential Facility
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=210503.
 
Suggestions on residential facilities for 16 yr old daughter
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=204766.0
 
RTCs
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=114130.0
 
How to transition home from RTC
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=200919.0
 
Coping Skills for Parents when their child is inpatient
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nP9mhmALVbY&feature=youtu.be

And lbjntlx, who used to post here, wrote this 12 month journal (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=120563.msg1188708#msg1188708) about her experience with RTC and her D13.





Title: Re: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: Swimmy55 on April 01, 2020, 09:05:56 AM
Thank you Lived for compiling this comprehensive list of info links.


Title: Re: Sending to a Therapeutic Boarding if you had $- yay/nay?
Post by: BenFranklin on April 02, 2020, 10:24:23 PM
If I may, I've had 2 kids through Yellowstone boys and girls ranch in Montana. My son for odd and autism, and my youngest with (I believe) Bpd.  I think very highly of their staff and am very impressed with their results. Very caring people.