Title: How to manage being blamed Post by: LostPossum on October 26, 2020, 09:18:55 PM Hi! I'm new around here and would like any help on how to deal with situations where a person has blamed me and picked apart my character in front of a group of people. This person continues to do this in public settings. Their mood often changes very quickly too. I feel as though I have become the target and enemy.
Title: Re: How to manage being blamed Post by: Turkish on October 27, 2020, 11:13:48 PM Public shaming and blaming is a tough one. My ex kind of did it tonight to me in front of her family when I picked up my kids.
Is this in front of friends or coworkers? My instinct would be to be sarcastic. "Huh. I thought October was anti- bullying month, yet here you are!" What led you to believe BPD? |