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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Lotus916 on May 04, 2021, 09:33:14 PM



Title: Crazy eyes
Post by: Lotus916 on May 04, 2021, 09:33:14 PM
Looking for help deciphering if  the crazy eyes when arguing is automatically means there is something more in an undiagnosed otherwise  rather normal boyfriend. I followed a thread about this specifically and was curious if anyone had experience with this in a person without BPD?


Title: Re: Crazy eyes
Post by: AlbatrossRising on May 04, 2021, 11:45:50 PM
It’s a hard one to decipher, but I’ve noticed my wife would get the crazy eyes when she would split or in this devaluing phase.


Title: Re: Crazy eyes
Post by: maxsterling on May 05, 2021, 12:35:12 AM
What do you mean by "crazy eyes"?


Title: Re: Crazy eyes
Post by: Chosen on May 05, 2021, 12:58:09 AM
I know what you mean.  It's not scientific, but I spot that uBPDh would have "crazy eyes" when he's raging.  I don't know what's going on in his mind, but it's a very different expression than when he's just angry with me.  It's like he's possessed...