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Is it worth confronting behaviors? bookworm1 1 54 Last post April 27, 2017, 02:21:11 PM
by isilme
How to cope with projection of abuse Jillian1231 5 128 Last post April 27, 2017, 11:36:31 AM
by isilme
Dear Wife skunkfish 1 75 Last post April 26, 2017, 07:44:15 PM
by waverider
Intimacy? Captain Jay 2 164 Last post April 26, 2017, 04:53:35 PM
by JoeBPD81
Hello Living with hope 2 58 Last post April 26, 2017, 02:10:15 PM
by Tattered Heart
Girlfriend suffers from bpd. Don8219 2 63 Last post April 26, 2017, 08:37:52 AM
by Don8219
Is this progress? Hulu 1 50 Last post April 26, 2017, 07:51:23 AM
by Tattered Heart
New to this Lovingmywife 7 126 Last post April 26, 2017, 02:07:59 AM
by doy
i dont know what to do, i need help kz09 1 73 Last post April 25, 2017, 06:59:05 PM
by Mutt
Need help at end of my road Givingup76 3 67 Last post April 25, 2017, 02:00:56 PM
by Ythisroad
Dealing with the grief of a loved one with this condition Byrdie 1 50 Last post April 25, 2017, 09:55:50 AM
by Tattered Heart
Planning a holiday with a friend Maya60 2 45 Last post April 25, 2017, 09:35:28 AM
by Maya60
First post ruby roo 3 51 Last post April 25, 2017, 08:05:05 AM
by ruby roo
In desperate need of help for the sake of my kids - PLEASE 48bbj 4 101 Last post April 25, 2017, 07:16:05 AM
by livednlearned
Daily life.... Torit 3 100 Last post April 25, 2017, 12:50:10 AM
by Torit
Incredibly lost « 1 2  All » Angel14 10 231 Last post April 24, 2017, 09:20:46 PM
by Angel14
Finally reaching out for support lostandinlove 3 56 Last post April 24, 2017, 09:24:30 AM
by Tattered Heart
Need to know if there is a way to make it work D3s1gn3r 9 270 Last post April 24, 2017, 04:03:24 AM
by waverider
Same Fight Echo87 2 90 Last post April 23, 2017, 09:55:59 AM
by Echo87
Wife Seems to Be Going Over the Edge usedtobeapilot 3 95 Last post April 23, 2017, 04:33:29 AM
by waverider
Newby here Notgoneyet 1 36 Last post April 23, 2017, 12:40:10 AM
by gotbushels
My 25yo wife, undiagnosed BPD or something, need advice living/w BPD Woogieboogie 1 53 Last post April 22, 2017, 08:52:50 PM
by Mutt
Confused by my partners words and actions stguy 1 80 Last post April 22, 2017, 07:38:57 PM
by Mutt
Invalid validation over text message « 1 2  All » CycleBreaker123 12 189 Last post April 22, 2017, 06:26:37 AM
by Notwendy
Staying Resolute « 1 2  All » DaddyBear77 13 280 Last post April 21, 2017, 08:31:38 PM
by Grey Kitty
confide your own personal limitations with a pwBPD and it is used to generateFOG Clara Louise 3 117 Last post April 21, 2017, 02:07:33 PM
by Clara Louise
BPD Just found out my wife has BPD Desperate Steve 5 139 Last post April 21, 2017, 11:22:54 AM
by Desperate Steve
Suggestions for places to retreat to? How to handle mutual friends? Katydid_ 2 113 Last post April 21, 2017, 10:00:31 AM
by OnceHadMoxie
Hello new here Jsgirl 4 67 Last post April 21, 2017, 08:41:26 AM
by allienoah
Is it reasonable...... mssalty 1 55 Last post April 21, 2017, 08:37:36 AM
by allienoah
First time introduction, 8 years of life with BPD SO Finn 1 63 Last post April 21, 2017, 08:14:16 AM
by Tattered Heart
Piling everything into the current fight louisiana77 2 96 Last post April 20, 2017, 10:36:45 PM
by louisiana77
Crisis after crisis « 1 2  All » canttakemuchmore 10 301 Last post April 20, 2017, 01:39:05 PM
by flourdust
wife's hating dbt and I'm to blame for her being there sideways 2 93 Last post April 20, 2017, 08:18:47 AM
by Tattered Heart
First Post - not sure I belong here CycleBreaker123 4 97 Last post April 20, 2017, 04:05:45 AM
by JoeBPD81
Do they(BPD) know you post here? « 1 2 3  All » JoeBPD81 20 256 Last post April 20, 2017, 03:30:26 AM
by JoeBPD81
Introduction, wife with BPD kite4007 4 115 Last post April 19, 2017, 04:14:07 PM
by kite4007
What can I expect? Quiet Penguin 3 91 Last post April 19, 2017, 02:23:01 PM
by isilme
I'm doing it all wrong and not sure how to stop fighting with my husband so_overit 4 165 Last post April 19, 2017, 01:20:53 PM
by so_overit
I feel like the validating skills don't apply to what I'm dealing with tonepoems 7 134 Last post April 19, 2017, 10:49:28 AM
by Skip
How Do I Respond to This Text? « 1 2 3  All » DaddyBear77 27 507 Last post April 18, 2017, 02:51:59 PM
by peacemountain
My BPD wife accused me on an affair with coworker's daughter - HELP « 1 2  All » Sprout2 10 201 Last post April 18, 2017, 11:33:20 AM
by Grey Kitty
Emotional dismantling of 10 year old child AmericanInItaly 3 100 Last post April 18, 2017, 11:18:18 AM
by isilme
Should I Even Go Home Tonight Tattered Heart 9 157 Last post April 18, 2017, 11:16:03 AM
by Tattered Heart
Please Help - BPD Spouse taking ADHD medication mecalecalec 1 68 Last post April 18, 2017, 11:02:46 AM
by Tattered Heart
No answers. djrt09 3 90 Last post April 18, 2017, 09:27:27 AM
by isilme
The worst fight since coming back to him (feedback desired) Cheetah1 1 81 Last post April 17, 2017, 08:08:52 AM
by Tattered Heart
Is a "normal" conversation possible with my ex BPD girlfriend ? « 1 2 3 4 5  All » In Pain 41 7200 Last post April 17, 2017, 04:43:37 AM
by waverider
Do you think he can get better with me? AndreaG64 1 81 Last post April 17, 2017, 02:30:56 AM
by stayingsteady
Sailing through rough waters Captain Jay 3 64 Last post April 16, 2017, 09:56:57 PM
by Mutt
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