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A 3 Minute Lesson
on Ending Conflict
Communication Skills-
Don't Be Invalidating
Listen with Empathy -
A Powerful Life Skill
Setting Boundaries
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He spoke to me again PeacefulCareBear 3 94 Last post September 25, 2017, 03:15:25 PM
by PeacefulCareBear
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by polaris9
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by Tattered Heart
Coming to grips with the reality that my SO has many BPD features. Cranston 7 150 Last post September 25, 2017, 01:50:10 PM
by 2Strong2Long
FaceBook meltdown - will I be the next target? Tattered Heart 2 56 Last post September 25, 2017, 01:00:21 PM
by Tattered Heart
She hit bottom - I'm trying to be the lighthouse without getting into the water Machidiel 3 87 Last post September 25, 2017, 08:54:13 AM
by Machidiel
Can't wrap my head around how someone can hide the disorder from others so well. Anna9973 2 50 Last post September 25, 2017, 08:52:25 AM
by SkySanta
BPD and no sex life - Have you experienced this? « 1 2  All » WildernessMan 12 215 Last post September 25, 2017, 08:47:23 AM
by WildernessMan
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by Mutt
sorry for being MIA lostandconfused6 3 63 Last post September 23, 2017, 09:47:30 AM
by lostandconfused6
After almost 3 years I've figured out His condition. I think... MelissaT 2 54 Last post September 22, 2017, 08:11:57 PM
by Mutt
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by Mutt
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by opentoideas
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by polaris9
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by nowwhat2020
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by lostandconfused6
Something different 2Strong2Long 4 65 Last post September 22, 2017, 01:09:52 PM
by 2Strong2Long
Tired of my BPD wife « 1 2 3 4  All » IWantToLive 39 1742 Last post September 22, 2017, 08:54:10 AM
by IWantToLive
New here and trying to get my wheels on the ground WildernessMan 6 69 Last post September 21, 2017, 04:47:45 PM
by Hisaccount
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by Mutt
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by PeteWitsend
I am now doing extreme things that I later hate myself for, BPD_Anon 3 96 Last post September 21, 2017, 12:16:30 PM
by sweetheart
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by Skip
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by IsThisThingOn
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by Tattered Heart
POLL: How you are handling or have handled your struggling relationship? « 1 2 3  All » Meili 28 1708 Last post September 21, 2017, 02:05:27 AM
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by Tattered Heart
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I had to validate shrimp « 1 2  All » Tattered Heart 15 185 Last post September 20, 2017, 12:24:09 PM
by Cole
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