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Loving a BPD Spouse or Significant Other,
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
Why We Struggle in Our Relationships
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Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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I think my GF is BPD.. I have some questions and hope for advice.. I care too much 5 1536 Last post December 01, 2005, 11:56:17 PM
by DancingCrows
Hi. Madonna 7 1291 Last post December 03, 2005, 11:46:46 AM
by been there
Trying to come to agreement with BPD on anything shortstuff 3 1054 Last post December 05, 2005, 10:00:23 AM
by supermom
Something the T said shortstuff 1 874 Last post December 06, 2005, 08:13:40 AM
by SmallVoice
beany update beany 7 1307 Last post December 06, 2005, 02:35:27 PM
by At_Bay
Every weekend Crisis WHY? hELP lisab2005 4 1276 Last post December 07, 2005, 11:42:38 AM
by lisab2005
BPDW Needs Her Space crash888 5 1594 Last post December 07, 2005, 07:09:39 PM
by JoannaK
Would like opinions on T’s advice « 1 2  All » Caribou 11 2121 Last post December 08, 2005, 08:13:05 AM
by Caribou
Still Digesting Thanksgiving (long) CasaG 5 1140 Last post December 08, 2005, 03:49:06 PM
by At_Bay
Just Want to Keep It Civil Tigerlily 8 1611 Last post December 08, 2005, 07:04:18 PM
by livingw/ochaos
Book - "CONTROLLING PEOPLE" by Patricia Evans Johnjm 4 1748 Last post January 23, 2006, 11:48:55 AM
by timeforclarity
techniques to work with BPD lazy behaviors shortstuff 9 8344 Last post January 24, 2006, 10:18:52 PM
by BetterThingsToDo
need help re: psychiatrist lightnin 3 2811 Last post January 25, 2006, 02:37:07 PM
by John Galt
Re: My first post... working hard to sustain a chosen r'ship with BP Bdawn 9 1967 Last post January 27, 2006, 01:59:16 PM
by Abigail
CONSTANTLY being treated like ghosts from the past huh 1 999 Last post January 28, 2006, 09:28:29 PM
by amybeth79
How do I stop « 1 2  All » lisab2005 11 2054 Last post January 29, 2006, 09:17:49 AM
by Oy-vey!
And tell me again - what are we all waiting for? « 1 2  All » shortstuff 18 3316 Last post January 30, 2006, 10:27:52 AM
by wojah
Could it be? « 1 2  All » resilient one 12 2075 Last post January 30, 2006, 10:43:03 AM
by wojah
Walking on eggshells nativeinme1 2 996 Last post January 30, 2006, 01:16:01 PM
by nativeinme1
Make the books available to buy as eBooks youngy 1 849 Last post January 30, 2006, 01:31:39 PM
by missy1068
Therapy elphaba 2 1199 Last post February 01, 2006, 09:18:39 AM
by JoannaK
BPD and stress? « 1 2  All » wojah 11 2298 Last post February 03, 2006, 07:57:49 AM
by Caribou
Update on Recovery « 1 2  All » Caribou 10 1845 Last post February 03, 2006, 10:38:51 AM
by John Galt
The BPD "loves me" huh 9 2434 Last post February 03, 2006, 10:45:33 AM
by huh
I hope I have finally found the right place... getting discouraged. Kare 9 1684 Last post February 03, 2006, 11:22:41 AM
by Kare
Just asking a question- I think it will help me. jess2k6 4 1094 Last post February 03, 2006, 02:36:09 PM
by At_Bay
Now she will not move in? wart 9 2047 Last post February 05, 2006, 04:46:28 PM
by wart
parenting with a BPD shortstuff 9 1684 Last post February 05, 2006, 10:44:40 PM
by spritom
welcome to my tardis meredith 2 893 Last post February 06, 2006, 05:56:04 AM
by meredith
H found my stop walking on eggshells book mice-elf 8 1976 Last post February 06, 2006, 09:39:09 AM
by pip
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