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on and off periods pushingforward 3 88 Last post January 05, 2017, 03:49:06 PM
by Mutt
On for two months and off for two months « 1 2  All » wrangler1217 10 1267 Last post August 28, 2012, 10:38:05 AM
by wrangler1217
Our journey out of OZ continues Steph 3 1066 Last post July 27, 2008, 07:29:22 PM
by Mousse
pwBP realizes reasons for the push-pull? shatra 7 1112 Last post September 18, 2011, 03:09:46 AM
by mitti
Raising children from a previouse marriage justme722004 5 1978 Last post October 30, 2005, 12:19:51 PM
by justme722004
Reconcilliation date is set Steph 7 1355 Last post July 23, 2008, 06:58:55 PM
by Steph
Recovery at our house « 1 2 3  All » Steph 20 2204 Last post December 15, 2010, 07:11:28 PM
by Steph
Relationship barriers and excuses Seeks 2 251 Last post November 05, 2015, 05:46:11 PM
by sweet tooth
Something to think about « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Steph 46 6061 Last post November 15, 2009, 08:01:15 PM
by DragoN
Song... anyone relate? Steph 9 1201 Last post August 06, 2009, 07:24:11 PM
by Hope in Bondi Beach
Stayers..Are you happy you have stayed? Why? Why not? « 1 2 3 4  All » Steph 36 5853 Last post November 19, 2009, 07:53:49 AM
by August
The "Are you mad at me" game sunshine40 8 4435 Last post January 03, 2013, 02:58:15 PM
by briefcase
THe Dog Dilema Wanda 5 851 Last post April 14, 2010, 11:37:39 PM
by Wanda
The stuff they say... « 1 2  All » ArleighBurke 11 730 Last post February 02, 2016, 06:59:57 PM
by ArleighBurke
THe week is over and he is on his way home Wanda 0 209 Last post July 19, 2013, 07:05:28 PM
by Wanda
Therapeutic Separation Nutts45 7 1088 Last post July 28, 2011, 03:12:13 AM
by Nutts45
thought i would give a good news update « 1 2  All » Wanda 13 1346 Last post May 31, 2009, 10:47:33 AM
by Alex H
Too early thoughts for a Monday « 1 2 3 4  All » Steph 33 4949 Last post August 30, 2008, 07:53:39 AM
by supperone
Using outside sources to help a partner who threatens suicide NGU 8 469 Last post March 17, 2015, 11:33:58 AM
by Moxie
What am I doing with my life? 2 « 1 2  All » ifsogirl26 18 2045 Last post June 17, 2010, 07:24:41 PM
by eeyore
What are you seeking when you come to Staying? « 1 2 3  All » Steph 21 1900 Last post April 10, 2012, 06:17:29 AM
by yeeter
What do you do to relax and keep your mind off of worries? « 1 2  All » Wanda 10 1185 Last post August 18, 2012, 06:35:34 AM
by Validation78
what i do when it gets to much... Wanda 2 474 Last post November 02, 2011, 12:01:11 PM
by Wanda
Where we are at Steph 5 837 Last post June 11, 2008, 05:43:24 PM
by Steph
$$$ « 1 2 3  All » Champ 24 2341 Last post October 07, 2008, 08:32:25 AM
by united for now
$$$ blown on pot -- separate accounts? need advice « 1 2  All » atcrossroads 11 822 Last post August 08, 2012, 01:10:36 PM
by atcrossroads
$%&'d up a birthday, nice « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Gaslit 47 2430 Last post December 22, 2011, 07:39:07 PM
by Gaslit
$90.00 Soo worth it « 1 2  All » pk 17 1644 Last post November 09, 2010, 10:15:03 PM
by eeyore
" Chill Pill" Anyone? « 1 2  All » Hope in Bondi Beach 16 2366 Last post November 27, 2009, 02:54:03 PM
by an0ught
"" if you do, "" if you don't « 1 2  All » helpdm 11 1264 Last post April 14, 2010, 12:12:57 PM
by helpdm
"A Fresh Start" - any support welcomed greatly PhoenixRising15 7 1073 Last post September 22, 2013, 03:12:51 PM
by Scarlet Phoenix
"a girl can dream" ms. brightside 2 476 Last post September 23, 2010, 08:02:54 AM
by Fathom
"A-ha" moment about black and white thinking Carmina 4 554 Last post June 22, 2012, 09:40:35 AM
by waverider
"adult" conversation odiado 6 892 Last post August 09, 2010, 08:21:49 AM
by committed
"All you do is criticize" « 1 2 3 4 5  All » Cat Familiar 43 3785 Last post January 25, 2015, 11:23:26 AM
by Cat Familiar
"AND THE BEAT GOES ON" Ave Marina 3 927 Last post August 31, 2006, 03:19:48 PM
by Sapphire
"Are you angry at me?" is Today's Trigger « 1 2 3  All » CodependentHusband 24 2214 Last post December 16, 2011, 06:02:15 PM
by CodependentHusband
"Boundaries" I'm trying new approach JQ 3 289 Last post July 01, 2015, 06:24:23 PM
by waverider
"Can't wait for life to be over"... 2 hours later... yeah I'm fine « 1 2 3  All » tranch 27 2906 Last post February 24, 2010, 02:56:02 PM
by TonyC
"Compassionate listening" when the target is always me? AnitaL 3 344 Last post January 08, 2014, 04:52:51 AM
by waverider
"Continued... Long Time Companion of BPD" Char 2 746 Last post December 16, 2007, 08:26:20 PM
by Matt
"Cute" suicide threats tranch 6 935 Last post November 17, 2010, 03:51:37 PM
by dados76
"Daddy's angry at you" daylily 7 1366 Last post August 03, 2012, 11:43:15 PM
by Blazing Star
"Dark" Music, Videos, Etc. « 1 2  All » joethemechanic 12 1341 Last post February 08, 2014, 07:20:09 AM
by Climbmountains91
"Did I do something bad?" Exhausted of responding to this « 1 2  All » FartonmyHeart 13 862 Last post December 12, 2015, 09:27:41 PM
by FartonmyHeart
"Did they ask about me?" « 1 2  All » SoWhat 18 1095 Last post February 20, 2014, 11:07:50 AM
by SoWhat
"Disregarding" him? isilme 2 224 Last post October 21, 2015, 04:32:25 PM
by babyducks
"Do you feel loved"? She asked « 1 2  All » joshbjoshb 13 731 Last post March 25, 2016, 10:51:21 AM
by an0ught
"Do you still think I'm mad?" « 1 2  All » Moselle 11 674 Last post November 26, 2014, 07:23:24 AM
by Moselle
"Do you think it's easy for me to have such a useless girlfriend?" misuniadziubek 8 435 Last post November 17, 2015, 01:14:54 PM
by misuniadziubek
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