i mentioned in my letter to him that love is action not words it is so easy to say you love some one the actions that he has been doing of late is not of someone that genuinely loves me... .dont think it went down to good oh well hit_ happens... .
Amen. I once wrote the same thing to my exBPDbf when he tried to come slinking back. Very important realization on your part.
Best wishes to you! I can relate to so many of your posts here lately. Thanks for sharing your experience.