She just contacted me

[spaceace]

She just texted me... .  

It was a brutal exchange. We couldn't even get through several text messages without threats and some serious name calling. She was all over me for changing a password on an account for our health insurance. Which I never did change. I don't even know that info. Then she gets the info somehow, texts me back she got it and did it all by herself as usual, and said she was turning off her phone. I am floored by her anger and animosity towards me!

Just little reminders to keep me on track with disengaging with her.

[Newton]

hey spaceace... .  this sounds pretty intense!... .  what sort of threats?... .  what sort of name calling?... .  

How are you feeling?... .  

[Seahorse1]

You did the right thing by posting here...

First... .  Do not take this personally...

Second... .  Calm down and disengage... .  

Third... .  Do not make an ass out of your self by continuing the text wars... .  

[spaceace]

She called me mentally unstable, threatened to contact a lawyer, threatened to call the police, do anything she had to get to the info she needed for our dental insurance and our mental health insurance. Total crap.

She then got mad that she had to go through me for things that are legally hers to access whenever she wants. It's a new year and the last time I logged on to any of these websites were a year ago if not more.

I feel fine. I actually came back and said to her, I am sorry you feel stressed having to deal with me to get this information. I will be as cordial and as polite as I can be and will provide whatever information you need.

I got what she wanted, and never a response. Oh well, so be it... pretty angry woman. I saw her act this way frequently with her ex husband. It looks like he's on one side of the totem pole and now I'm on the other side and I think we may be neck and neck... LOL!'

Oh well, at least it's over and I don't have to deal with her about that anymore.

[spaceace]

You did the right thing by posting here...

First... .  Do not take this personally...

Second... .  Calm down and disengage... .  

Third... .  Do not make an ass out of your self by continuing the text wars... .  

It started as a text war, but I quickly realized it was going nowhere quick, all for some info that I didn't know off the top of my head. It's all good.

She's an angry woman. I feel sorry for her behaving this way when at one time she looked at me as the one who brought her happiness. Who knows why she is here. In the end, it matters little. I just need to keep afloat. And not engage. Enough already... moving on...