I texted a girlfriend of min, telling her I'm sick of crying every day, she replies; why don't you call the suicide hotline ? ... .ok thanks have a nice evening. "what do you want me to do, i don't comprehend what you're going through?"
this is only a friend someone who says she care about me. Do you see a red flag here like me ?
Someone recently told me that a friend is someone for whom you pull out your heart, show it to them and say, "here, what do you think?"
And they do the same for you. Not to have them grab it, suck out the blood, stomp it on the floor and toss it into the dumpster, saying, "have a nice day.
A friend is someone to whom you entrust the building of your character. Not have it ripped to shreds. And if they have no character themselves, then what is the point?
