Last night I dreamed he couldn't pay his bills, was sad and vulnerable and I woke up worried.
This is the stuff that can get us "stuck". I remember doing the same and talking to my "T" about it. She reminded me that my 'ex' made it through life long before me and will do so long after me.
It seems so many of us have the "co-dependant" kick in; the parental side of us that for some reason worries they won't get by on their own. That is all part of the FOG.
Peace