11 year anniversary

[joeramabeme]

Hey All, Today is the date of my 11th wedding anniversary.  We are still married, she moved out 1 month ago and has pretty much painted the r/s black for about 1 year now.

All the same, I want to send her some sort of message acknowledging the date.  Was thinking of saying something like just acknowledging and hope you are well, would like to remain friends.  Not sure what else to say.  Really intended to do the right thing by me.

We are still in settlement which is dragging on as we stand on opposite sides of negotiation and I know she is not happy with my position.

Thoughts

[Mutt]

Hi joeramabeme,

11 years is a long history. I'm sorry that your ex has split you black. I don't think that there's a right or wrong with sending her a message. Have you thought about if she doesn't give you a response? Are you OK with that.