she cant possibly be happy being a loser

[BrokenFamily]

Since the breakup (4 months now) I've been coping okay. Its amazing someone who said everyday how much they love you and their family can just up and leave and start a new relationship with a total loser the same week. It's been difficult for me and our daughter, I'm working 16 hour days 3 days a week and have the baby the other 4 days a week. On the days I work the baby stays with my ex's mother, she takes care of the baby while my ex and my replacement sleep till 2pm. On the days I have the baby she stays at the replacements mommy's house and has literally no responsibility for her daughter. I'm working myself to exhaustion and I'm all alone taking care of the baby and its really difficult.

[downwhim]

I am so very sorry to hear how she not only abandoned you but the baby. Normal mothers don't leave their children. She obviously is a child herself and takes little responsibility and none when it is available to her.

Please make some time for yourself through all of this. I know it is difficult but even a walk or meditate and always remember you have this board to post on. We are all here for you and have been through some of the same issues.

I was abandoned via email that he did not want to get married, give him his ring back and he was moving on. Out of the blue... .the pain has been difficult. I am 3 1/2 months out and it is getting easier. Reach out to friends and family too for support and a break from the baby... .