Mine told me she needed time to work on her issues, but we both know that's not true. She's never going to change because she doesn't have the ability too. She's too busy enjoying all the attention and making herself out to be the victim to everyone. Typical BPD behavior! Ugh! I dislike this disorder so much. It takes so much from you in the end it's like having to rebuild yourself completely again. It's a very tough time.
My ex could stand in a stadium in front of a televised crowd, empty the chamber of an automatic weapon into to a defenseless person... .and some how, some way she would be the victim. It's really that bad.
Oh how I do believe that. I don't know how we deal with their sh** like we do. What makes them any better than us? They are the ones with all the fault not us nons. The biggest thing I have learned through all this is when we see a problem we try to tackle it and make it better. When the disordered see a problem they see it as a means to use against us and make us feel guilty and bad. Which in reality we should never feel bad for doing the things we feel is most right in our hearts.
