Ex BPDw broke no contact

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

So here's the update. I'm still away and still receiving texts from BPDex. Wants to know when i'm returning and surprisingly has been pleasant with her texts. This morning it was should she let her son go with his father seeing theres a blizzard in NY and she didn't want him traveling.

Why is she asking me to make decisions when i'm not in a relationship with her. I know all about the nc but i'm trying to really wrap my head around this. You tell me you hate me, pull the b------t with the ivf and engagement and end this and still want to keep contacting me. Like i said earlier i beleive the ivf abd engagement really put this in motion and now beleives maybe it wasn't such a good idea to end this. As much as she hurt me i dont have heart to really be mean to her even as she's bashing her son's father today.

[Lexisdad]

So here's the update. I'm still away and still receiving texts from BPDex. Wants to know when i'm returning and surprisingly has been pleasant with her texts. This morning it was should she let her son go with his father seeing theres a blizzard in NY and she didn't want him traveling.

Why is she asking me to make decisions when i'm not in a relationship with her. I know all about the nc but i'm trying to really wrap my head around this. You tell me you hate me, pull the b------t with the ivf and engagement and end this and still want to keep contacting me. Like i said earlier i beleive the ivf abd engagement really put this in motion and now beleives maybe it wasn't such a good idea to end this. As much as she hurt me i dont have heart to really be mean to her even as she's bashing her son's father today.