Hi akinco
I would like to join the
big friendly wolf in welcoming you here
You have been through a lot and I am very sorry your mother's behavior has affected you so much. I am glad though that you are now better able to deal with your mother.
My brother has been married to my SIL for 26 years and she's causing problems AGAIN.
What kind of problems is your SIL causing? What do you consider her most difficult or disturbing traits?
Does your brother also believe your SIL has certain issues?
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