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4lw4y5zoober

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Controlling

« on: January 17, 2018, 03:54:30 AM »

I am in a relationship where I cant talk to anyone I have had sexual relations with , the person constantly searches for social profiles they think i am hiding and they constantly think i am lying. Any advice?


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Tattered Heart

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Re: Controlling

« Reply #1 on: January 17, 2018, 09:08:31 AM »

Hi 4lw

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I"m sorry that you are experiencing jealousy in your relationship. When your partner makes these accusations how do you respond?

Is it important to you to continue having contact with people you have been in a sexual relationship with?

Our workshop on Stop Accusations & Blaming might help you come up with some ideas on how to address those accusations.


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Re: Controlling

« Reply #2 on: January 23, 2018, 12:34:25 PM »

I want to join Tattered Heart in welcoming you to the bpdfamily. I hope that you find as much help and support here as I have received.

Can you tell us a bit more about your relationship? How long have the two of you been together? Are you married, or dating?


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