Home page of BPDFamily.com, online relationship supportMember registration here
March 21, 2019, 03:45:29 PM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
A Star is Born: Real or another Hollywood dysfunctional love model? -  Discussion here
Board Admins: Harri, Once Removed
Senior Ambassadors: Cat Familar, Flourdust, Mutt, Only Human, Radcliff, Turkish
Ambassadors: Enabler, formflier, itsmeSnap, Ozzie101, WTL, Purplex, zachira
  Help!   Groups   Please Donate Login to Post New?--Click here to register  
bing
Skills we were never taught
98
A 3 Minute Lesson
on Ending Conflict
Communication Skills-
Don't Be Invalidating
Listen with Empathy -
A Powerful Life Skill
Setting Boundaries
and Setting Limits
Pages: [1]   Go Down
  Print  
Author Topic: New here  (Read 46 times)
Bels23
Fewer than 3 Posts
*
Offline Offline

Person in your life: Romantic partner
Posts: 1


« on: January 12, 2019, 08:32:53 PM »

Hello,
I am new to this website. I heard about it from a book I am reading. My husband has been diagnosed with BPD and I would just like a place where other people understand what im going thru without telling me to leave him.
Logged
PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES
This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.

Bnonymous
****
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
Person in your life: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 486


« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2019, 05:45:43 AM »

Hi Bels23,

Welcome to the family!  Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

I would just like a place where other people understand what im going thru without telling me to leave him.


Then you are absolutely in the right place here. 

Can you tell us a bit about your situation? How long have you been married? Do you have kids? What are some of the difficult issues/behaviours you're facing in your marriage?
Logged

"You remind me of someone who is looking through a closed window and cannot explain to himself the strange movements of a passer-by. He doesn’t know what kind of a storm is raging outside and that this person is perhaps only with great effort keeping himself on his feet." - Ludwig Wittgenstein
Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Links and Information
CLINICAL INFORMATION
The Big Picture
5 Dimensions of Personality
BPD? How can I know?
Get Someone into Therapy
Treatment of BPD
Full Clinical Definition
Top 50 Questions

EDITORIAL DEPARTMENTS
My Child has BPD
My Parent/Sibling has BPD
My Significant Other has BPD
Recovering a Breakup
My Failing Romance
Endorsed Books
Archived Articles

RELATIONSHIP TOOLS
How to Stop Reacting
Ending Cycle of Conflict
Listen with Empathy
Don't Be Invalidating
Values and Boundaries
On-Line CBT Program
>> More Tools

MESSAGEBOARD GENERAL
Membership Eligibility
Messageboard Guidelines
Directory
Suicidal Ideation
Domestic Violence
ABOUT US
Mission
Policy and Disclaimers
Professional Endorsements
Wikipedia
Facebook

BPDFamily.org

Your Account
Settings

Moderation Appeal
Become a Sponsor
Sponsorship Account


Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2006-2019, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!