Hi Wilma and welcome to the board. I am so sorry to hear about your daughters struggles and yours. I am glad you reached out here as we do have people here who can relate and perhaps can offer some words of wisdom. What I can offer is assurance that you are not alone in this. Unfortunately I do not have advice I can offer you but I did want to say welcome and also direct you to some reading material you can look through and see if there is anything there that might stand out to you. If you check out the tacked topic
HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE you will see a bunch of links. See if any are helpful of apply to your situation.
I know your primary concern right now is for your daughter, but what sort of support do you have, other than us here? Are other people aware of your situation?
Hang in there. I am sure someone else will be along to help you with your more immediate concern. In the meantime, I can listen.