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« on: September 27, 2019, 04:34:20 AM »

Mod note: This post was split from the following thread as it merited its own discussion: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=339370.0

Coldknight,

6 weeks NC, that's great! It's a very slow process... But i think you are firm. Glad to ear it.

Your questions:

half an hour after the phone call where she told she was thinking of going out of the country and told she hadn't anyone else in her life, i find out that she was in a relationship status on Facebook ( recent status ). I just sent her a text saying "And in the meanwhile, you are in a relationship on facebook again. Congratulations!". A little bit ironic text. That was my last comunication. She didn't answer. She was lying to me everyday, phone calling me, calling me "love", keeping me here, waiting. Even half an hour earlier she lied saying she had nobody else, just me. LOL. Incredible. And that was it, 12 days ago. I didn't block her in anyway, but we haven't contacted each other since then.

I decided for NC, because i think that she destroyed every chance we had to be together even after she went on a relationship with some guy without telling me. Now she did exactly the same, even with me accepting to work on our issues and possibly resume the r/s. It's the only healthy thing to do.

9 days ago i spoke with a friend of ours, and he told me about all the cheating, the lies, the robbing, the smearing, etc. He said he was feeling bad about not telling earlier, but he didn't want to get involved. He said she is no man's woman. That she is uncapable of being in a relationship with anyone and he also spoke about her new bf, and said that when things go wrong, she will feel insecure and try to get back with me, because she knows i always gave her everything.
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