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« on: November 20, 2019, 12:13:15 AM »

How do psychologists react when upwpbd (but psychologist knows s/he has bpd) tells him/her that they suddenly broke up with their g/f or b/f after upwbpd finds out she(the upwbpd) has cancer or a chronic illness?

My g/f broke up with me after finding out she had cancer. (Same day she found out about cancer). She is seeing a therapist(who was once our couples therapist) and I am pretty sure the couple’s therapist knows. It would help mevto know what/how a psychologist would respond to this after the person trlls them about the cancer/breakup?

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« Reply #1 on: November 20, 2019, 12:29:00 AM »

its very hard to say, without knowing the therapist, and their relationship to your loved one.

are you hoping that the therapist would tell her she made an impulsive mistake?
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« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2019, 12:50:34 PM »

Thanks Once Removed—

Honestly no hope for that. This is healthy for me not to be romantically involved with her, but I am t try ing to find ways in my head to bring some sense of peace. I genuinely wondered about the approach of a therapist in “helping her”?
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