somewhere in the tools section on the board I remember a video lesson about validating and the doc talked about "validating the invalid". It's a real problem in bpd because distortions arise. I'm going to have go back and find that myself.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESqfW_kyZq8&t=224sThis is a video on validating that I found interesting online. She dealt with seniors with dementia. The reason I found it was relevant is because people who suffer with bpd distort reality and perceptions unintentionally but to us nons it seems intentional and of course it affects us because we have a different reality that we wish that they could see.