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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Parent
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« on: December 08, 2020, 06:56:03 AM »

Our lives are complicated and confusing. The answers to the challenges we face will take time. Below is a roadmap to help members navigate the process. The top of this list is where we all start. In time we work our way down the list together.  


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Start Here
Read Before Posting
How Do I Navigate This Site
Introduce yourself!
Survivor to Thriver Program

Tools and Skills - Immediate Help
Communication Skills - Don't Be Invalidating
Don't "JADE" (justify, argue, defend, explain)
Communicate - S.E.T. (Support, Empathy and Truth)
A 3 minute Lesson on Ending Conflict
Setting Boundaries and Setting Limits
Escaping Conflict and the Karpman Drama Triangle
More...

What Am I Dealing With?
I think it's Borderline Personality Disorder, but how can I know?
DSM Definition: Borderline Personality Disorder
DSM Definition: Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Understanding BPD Behaviors
BEHAVIORS: Waif, Hermit, Queen, and Witch
BPD BEHAVIORS:  Silent treatment
BEHAVIORS: Projection
BEHAVIORS: Splitting
BEHAVIORS: Extinction Bursts
Anosognosia and Getting a "Borderline" into Therapy
More...

Self Care:
Distress Tolerance - What to Do When We are Losing It
Triggering and Mindfulness and Wise Mind
Practicing meditation--how do you do it?
Radical Acceptance For Family Members

Understanding / Working on Us:
Emotional Blackmail: Fear, Obligation and Guilt (FOG)
Have Your Parents Put You at Risk for Psychopathology
Depression: Stop Being Tortured by Your Own Thoughts
Shame, a Powerful, Painful and Potentially Dangerous Emotion
Dealing with Enmeshment and Codependence
Dealing with ruminations
More...

Understanding and Healing the Damage of Growing Up in a BPD Environment
Have you had a "breakthrough crisis"?
Remembering - when is it therapeutic vs debilitating?
POLL: Have you experienced emotional incest?
Have Your Parents Put You at Risk for Psychopathology?
How Can We Forgive Ourselves?
Family systems--understanding the narcissistic family
Depression and Suicidal Ideation
VIDEO | Stop Caretaking the BPD or NPD - Margalis Fjelstad, Ph.D., LMFT
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