It may make a difference if that affair with the woman he met at a bar occurred or continued after the marriage.
Since your marriage is relatively new, just a few months, is annulment a possibility? Like so much else with marriages, the basis to seek annulment varies from state to state.
Another thought... there are several states with lengthy waiting/separation periods (1-2 years) before filing for no-fault divorce. Many (but not all) do allow a shorter period if both spouses have "mutual consent" to divorce. Does
your state allow for anything less than 18 months?