The thing is I know she’s visiting her friend and I completely wouldn’t have been upset if she couldn’t FaceTime. I don’t know if she’s likely scared of the reaction if she told me no so she just avoided the conversation. But still it’s hard to trust her when her story doesn’t line up.
its important to see it this way. people lie, or fib, or omit, or dont follow through, for a variety of different reasons and motivations.
for example, i had someone recently asking me to video chat. i wanted to, but at the same time, video chats are the most awkward thing in the world to me, and i kept putting it off out of anxiety. could it be as simple as she doesnt like video chatting?
ultimately, this event could either hold more or less significance depending on the context of your relationship. does she do this sort of thing regularly? is she flaky? are there other areas in which you dont trust her?