I dont know where to start

[Lady Liberty]

Hello.  I don't know where to start.  My boyfriend I believe has BPD.  He was not diagnosed with it, but from what I have read so far, is pointing to this.  He is so explosive and abusive.  He is not physically abusive, just mentally, emotionally and verbally I am reading stop walking on eggshells.  I feel alone and thought maybe I could get some support and guidance here.  I am planning on leaving, but I don't have any where to go just yet.  I tried explaining to him that he was abusive, but he thinks that because he isn't physically abusive he is not abusive.  Any suggestions or advise is welcomed.  Thanks.

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