Help for relationship w/ Boyfriend with BPD

[SerenityStayz79]

I am just trying to learn about BPD. Trying to understand why he reacts the way he does and how to help him and our relationship.

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[skaman24]

Serenity, read as much as you can. If you want to make it work, you will need to really understand what is a very complicated condition. I found that reading - and the resources here are simply amazing - helped me process my breakup, and I wish I knew 1/3 of what I learned here during my relationship. But what is done is done...

Also: remember your goal must be understanding the behaviors, not trying to change him, not trying to convince him to change. He will need to choose to help himself.

Good luck!