Why it is essential to "detach with love" from your adult BPD child

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I thought this thread on the PSI board might be of interest here to parents who feel compelled to be their adult child's "favorite person" in order to "help" them with their symptoms: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=354544.0

In short, if your adult child is emotionally dependent on you then what is going to happen to your child when you are no longer around?

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders